As much as we love your kids, all events will be 21+.

Black tie optional basically means "Black tie preferred, Formal is also perfectly OK". So: tuxedo or dark suit, floor or ankle-length gown or cocktail dress. Another way to put it: "if you have a suit but no tux it's OK to wear your suit, but if you have a tux, this is a good excuse to wear it." Here's a useful link that can explain it: https://www.google.com/search?q=black+tie+optional

We've only sent out Save-the-Dates with a preliminary RSVP for headcount. Formal invitations (which will include things like meal choice and dietary preference) haven't been sent out yet, but they will.

We're collecting RSVPs now to get a preliminary headcount to help us plan, and formal invitations will be sent out later. If there are other considerations we should be aware of, you can add a note directly in the RSVP form (at the end) or get in touch directly.

As far as we know, no.

See below - ask Nick and he'll fix it.

Feel free to ask Nick any questions. You can use email (nsbradford@gmail.com), text, carrier pigeon, smoke signal, or any other method you think he'll interpret.